True Love just doesn't go away...

Let's admit it, we have all once in our lives loved someone so much that we thought we'll never be able to move on and love someone else as much as we loved that one. Whether you call it “first love” or “love of your life” it always hurts having to move on especially when that person doesn’t like, love or want you (anymore). Even if you were never a couple with that person you had/have strong feelings about them and even if you have met, liked and wanted others after them you never really felt/feel the way you felt/feel with that special one.

You might feel like the person is haunting you, like you fall for them again and again every time you see them, like your heart is never going to feel that way ever again.

It’s partly true. Your heart chooses who will love and who will hate, you can’t control it most times. I know it hurts a lot. Especially if that person you love(d) has already moved on and seems to be happy. It’s hard cause no matter how many other people you meet you always have that person in the back of your mind.

This happens because the one you love is a part of your heart, weird as it may sounds it’ s true. Your heart just likes that person even if they broke it before.

Why does this happen? I have no idea, I guess it happens because it’s meant to be. Even if your ‘eyes’ do not adore the appearance that person has or their character your heart just loves them as they are. This is called True Love. Some may call it illness others a feeling, I just call it a difficult situation you have to get through.

The best you can do is realize that you’ll always have feelings for that person no matter what they do to make you hate or unlike them. Just accept it because it won’t change, it hurts a lot but accepting that feeling and being ‘okay’ with it will make things better. Just take it easy, it’s pretty hard and requires a lot of work but in the end you’ll end up winning.

I could be writing on this post all day long but it will end up being huge so I’ll just end up here and one last thing:

Never give up on love because it’s the purest and most beautiful thing in the world and if the one you love doesn’t love you back it’s their problem because they’re losing true love. And remember no matter what true love will never go away, just live with it and go on! Be strong!

Yours Faithfully,

Athina…(: xxx